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Pride and Prejudice summary for kids

Pride and Prejudice follows Elizabeth Bennet, a quick-witted young woman in the English countryside, and her four sisters, whose mother is desperate to see them married. When the wealthy Mr. Bingley moves in nearby, along with his proud friend Mr. Darcy, first impressions go badly wrong. Elizabeth is funny, honest and stubborn, and readers love watching her learn to look more carefully at people, herself included. Jane Austen’s sparkling story about misjudging others, and about discovering who you really are, is still read and loved more than two hundred years later.

Written by
Jane Austen, 1813
Setting
Rural Hertfordshire and other parts of England, around 1811 to 1812
The original novel
61 chapters in three volumes
Our retelling
Ages 6–9, an illustration on every page

The story, from beginning to end

Spoiler alert: this summary tells the whole story, including the ending.

Five sisters and a new neighbour

Mr. and Mrs. Bennet live at Longbourn, a country house in Hertfordshire, with their five daughters: Jane, Elizabeth, Mary, Kitty and Lydia. There is a serious problem. The estate is entailed, which is a rule that the house must pass to a male relative, so when Mr. Bennet dies his daughters will have no home and little money. Mrs. Bennet is therefore determined to marry them off well, while her clever, dry-humoured husband mostly finds the whole business amusing.

News arrives that a rich young man, Mr. Bingley, has rented nearby Netherfield Park. At the next village ball he is friendly and cheerful, and he quickly admires the eldest Bennet sister, gentle Jane. His friend Mr. Darcy, who is even richer, is tall, handsome and silent. Elizabeth overhears him refuse to dance with her, calling her only “tolerable.” She decides at once that he is proud and disagreeable.

Mr. Collins and Mr. Wickham

Jane catches a cold while visiting Netherfield, and Elizabeth walks there through the mud to nurse her. Staying on, she sees more of Darcy, who is secretly beginning to admire her lively mind, though she is too annoyed with him to notice. Soon afterwards a cousin, Mr. Collins, arrives. He is the clergyman who will inherit Longbourn, and he is pompous and silly, full of praise for his patroness, Lady Catherine de Bourgh.

Meanwhile the Bennet girls meet a charming army officer, Mr. Wickham. He tells Elizabeth that Darcy treated him cruelly and cheated him out of a position that Darcy’s late father had promised him. Elizabeth believes every word, which makes her dislike Darcy even more. At a ball at Netherfield, Mr. Collins proposes to Elizabeth, and she refuses him firmly, to her mother’s fury.

Disappointments

Mr. Collins quickly turns to Elizabeth’s sensible friend Charlotte Lucas, who accepts him because she wants a secure home. Elizabeth is shocked that her friend would marry for comfort rather than love. At the same time, Bingley and his sisters suddenly leave for London, and Jane is heartbroken. Elizabeth believes Bingley’s sisters and Darcy have talked him out of loving her.

In the spring, Elizabeth visits Charlotte and Mr. Collins in Kent, near Lady Catherine’s grand house, Rosings. Darcy, who is Lady Catherine’s nephew, is visiting too. One evening, he surprises Elizabeth by declaring that he loves her, though he speaks as if he is doing her a favour and talks about how much lower her family is than his. Elizabeth refuses him angrily. She accuses him of ruining Jane’s happiness and of treating Wickham badly.

Darcy’s letter and a trip to Pemberley

The next day Darcy gives Elizabeth a letter. He explains that he separated Bingley from Jane because he thought Jane did not return Bingley’s feelings and he disliked the family’s poor manners. He also reveals the truth about Wickham, who had wasted the money Darcy’s father left him and had even tried to run away with Darcy’s young sister, Georgiana, to get her fortune. Elizabeth is deeply shaken. She reads the letter again and again, and she slowly realises that she has judged both men unfairly and that her own pride in being a good judge of people has misled her.

Later that summer, Elizabeth travels with her aunt and uncle, the Gardiners, and they tour Pemberley, Darcy’s beautiful estate. She believes he is away. The housekeeper praises him warmly as a kind master. Then Darcy unexpectedly returns, and he is polite, gentle and eager to please. He even introduces her to his sister.

Lydia’s disgrace

Their visit is cut short by terrible news. Lydia, the youngest Bennet sister, who is sixteen and very silly, went to Brighton with the army and has run away with Wickham. The couple are not married, and in those days that could ruin the reputation of the entire family and make it hard for her sisters to marry. Elizabeth hurries home, and Mr. Bennet and Mr. Gardiner search for the couple in London.

Soon the family hears that Lydia and Wickham have been found and will marry, and that Wickham has agreed to it for a surprisingly small sum. Everyone assumes Mr. Gardiner paid. Later Elizabeth learns, from a careless remark by Lydia, that it was really Darcy who found them and arranged and paid for everything, quietly and without asking for any thanks.

Second chances

Bingley returns to Netherfield, and he and Jane soon become engaged. Then Lady Catherine descends on Longbourn, furious about a rumour that Elizabeth will marry Darcy. She demands that Elizabeth promise never to accept him. Elizabeth refuses, saying that she will make her own choice.

This news encourages Darcy to try again. He and Elizabeth walk out together, and she thanks him for what he did for Lydia. He tells her that his feelings have not changed. This time Elizabeth accepts gladly. Darcy admits that she taught him to be less proud, and she admits that her first impression of him was wrong.

Happy endings

Mr. Bennet is surprised and worried, since Elizabeth once disliked Darcy so much, but he agrees when she assures him that she truly loves him. Mrs. Bennet is overjoyed at having two daughters marry such rich men. In the last chapter we learn that Jane and Bingley move to a home close to Pemberley, and that Elizabeth and Darcy are very happy at Pemberley, which becomes a welcoming place for her aunt and uncle. Lydia and Wickham do not turn out as well, since they keep spending more than they have.

Themes and big ideas

Pride
Darcy is proud of his money and family, and at first looks down on the Bennets. Elizabeth is proud too, of her own sharp judgment. In the story, both of them must learn humility before they can be happy. Darcy changes the way he treats others, and Elizabeth has to admit she was wrong.
Prejudice and first impressions
Elizabeth decides Darcy is horrible after one rude remark at a dance, and she trusts the charming Wickham without checking his story. Austen shows that quick judgments can be badly mistaken, and that people are often more complicated than they appear. It is a good lesson to talk about with children.
Marriage, money and love
In Austen’s time women could rarely earn their own living, so marriage was important for security. Charlotte marries Mr. Collins for a home, while Lydia runs off with Wickham for excitement. Elizabeth and Jane insist on marrying for real love and respect, and the book suggests that is the best foundation.
Family and reputation
A family’s good name mattered very much, and one girl’s mistake could harm her sisters. When Lydia runs away, everyone fears for the whole family’s future. The story shows how family members can help each other, as the Gardiners and Darcy do, and how silly behaviour can cause real trouble.
Kindness and good manners
Characters in the book are judged by how they treat others, not just by how rich they are. Darcy’s housekeeper and servants love him, which tells Elizabeth more about his character than his first stiff manners. Mr. Collins and Lady Catherine, who are rude and bossy while thinking themselves very important, show how not to behave.

Is Pride and Prejudice right for my child?

Pride and Prejudice is a gentle story with no violence and no deaths of main characters. The things a parent should know about are mostly social: money worries, a runaway couple (Lydia and Wickham, who live together before marrying, which is treated as a disgrace but not described), family arguments, and a long romance that centres on marriage proposals. There is also a lot of witty talk and long sentences in the original that can be hard for younger readers. Most of the humour comes from the characters’ funny and foolish behaviour.

Our retelling for ages 6 to 9 keeps the main story, the sisters, the misunderstandings between Elizabeth and Darcy, and the happy ending, while softening the more grown-up parts, such as Lydia’s elopement, and simplifying the language. We suggest the retelling for ages 6 to 9, and the original novel for ages 13 and up, or for strong readers who enjoy old-fashioned language, ideally with a parent to talk about it.

Questions to talk about

  1. Why do you think Elizabeth does not like Mr. Darcy at the start?
  2. Have you ever changed your mind about someone after getting to know them? What happened?
  3. Why does Elizabeth say no when Mr. Collins asks her to marry him?
  4. What do you think of Mr. Wickham? Why does Elizabeth believe him?
  5. How are Elizabeth and her sister Jane alike, and how are they different?
  6. What does Darcy do to help Lydia, and why do you think he does it quietly?
  7. What does it mean to be proud? Can pride ever be a good thing?
  8. Which character would you most like to have as a friend, and why?

Questions about Pride and Prejudice

What is Pride and Prejudice about?
It is about Elizabeth Bennet, who meets the proud, wealthy Mr. Darcy and dislikes him at once. Over time they both discover that they misjudged each other, and they fall in love.
How does Pride and Prejudice end?
Elizabeth and Darcy become engaged after he secretly helps her family when Lydia runs away, and after she sees how much he has changed. Jane marries Mr. Bingley, and both couples live happily near each other.
What is the moral of Pride and Prejudice?
The main lesson is not to judge people by first impressions, and not to let pride get in the way of seeing the truth. It also shows that marriages based on respect and love are best.
Who is the main character in Pride and Prejudice?
Elizabeth Bennet, the second of five sisters, is the main character. The story is mostly told through her eyes, and Mr. Darcy is the other leading character.
What age is Pride and Prejudice appropriate for?
The original is usually read from about age 13, though it has no violence. Our retelling is made for ages 6 to 9.
How many chapters are in Pride and Prejudice?
The original book has 61 chapters, divided into three volumes.